How I got the sense of true friendship.

How I got the sense of true friendship.


Meaning of true friendship. It's a sense of understanding with someone we desire to be with, a company we enjoy and a support we always long for. Yet, vast majority of People still live all by themselves. They are not punished or anything relevant to that. They simply are loner. But we should not attach introverts with loner. A person may be an extrovert but can still have no close and true friend. But we must know first what's a true friend is? This question hangs on the previous one, why so many people now days are loner?

Well most obvious answer will be, people today are all living on the edge of technology, and they are always connected. So nobody bothers having a close friend as people used to do in the past. What’s surprising is that people today are too much afraid. They are afraid that their fear may come true. That the person they trust may betray them. So people start to stay away from relationships that require commitment. They have adopted the tendency to be there when ever needed but not available both emotionally and physically. It’s because a simple smile can change someone’s life. A warm hug can provide huge relief. So it’s important to have a clear mindset about what we want form a person so that it won’t be a complete disaster when reality is put forward.

Our main focus is what’s true friend? Most notably the one friend who stays with you when everyone is against you is a true friend. But it raises the question about the loyalty of such friend and this is where our logical capacity comes in action. Basically it’s all psychological and it all revolves in logic. We do something first and then later give logical explanation. This is exactly what happens every time we do something illogical.

For me, I find the meaning of true friendship when a friend cuts off for a long time and again comes in contact all of a sudden and remains the same. It’s like forgiving everything because it’s forgotten for the divineness of the relation.

So what’s your opinion about true friend? Are you too afraid to make friends?