Giving Love Can change your life.

"If you give love, you can get a little of your own love."

It's a song. It's about love and love only. Here, love is the life changer. Loving someone involves a simple step and it's caring. It does not matter whether you show it or not but it all about caring that a heart can do. And I am sure we all always want unconditional love but I do think that unconditional love comes itself with a condition: It should be without any condition. And I view it as the ultimate frame work of human society where there is always “conditions apply” written clearly but we ignore it as if there’s nothing.

So what’s so important about giving love to get one back? It’s the ability to express and do what you want to do and expect other’s to do. And it’s all mutual understanding. No one forces you to love. It’s all about willingness to love. The ability to love somebody makes a person able to love him or herself. When we are able to love ourselves we start to care ourselves. We start to see the stages we are going through and this could be personal as well as interpersonal. But the main part is that we start to care about ourselves knowingly or unknowingly, which is so important if we want to know ourselves.

There could be so many reasons why we should know ourselves. But the most important one for me that knowing ourselves marks our boundaries. It shows us our extreme and it has benefits too. The only one reason why knowing our limits is important is that we can go beyond it and set another limit. This limit could be anything literally. It could be whom you love, who you will be, what you will do, how you will live…list can continue forever. And it all starts with the ability to give love. But giving love could be hard too.

Loving someone could be extremely hard if you are unaware of the love that someone has for you. Sometime we all fall in situations like that where people do love us but we have hard times loving them back. Its situations when trust is involved. But should trust and love be combined together? It’s a question that can be answered in various ways  but what I feel about it is that, loving someone is all about accepting people for what they are not what we want them to be. Someone betrays you then the ability to forgive is the best option available. I always do and it leaves me with simple thought "If you give love, you can get a little of your own love."

So I how have you been lately? Loving?